

Victims of cyberbullying often experience real physiological reactions to stress. Common symptoms include sleep disturbances, headaches, stomach pain and fatigue, which are all signs of chronic stress (Mishna, Saini & Solomon, 2020). Unlike face-to-face conflicts, cyberbullying can feel inescapable, keeping individuals on high alert as they anticipate harmful messages. Over time, this heightened stress can affect immune function, hormonal regulation and overall sleep patterns (Hinduja & Patchin, 2022). Understanding these responses helps individuals realise that their reactions are normal and valid, rather than a reflection of personal weakness.
The psychological impact is equally significant. Victims may experience anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feelings of helplessness and reduced life satisfaction (Chang & Coster, 2024). Cyberbullying often feels public and persistent, intensifying emotional distress compared with offline bullying. Learning strategies to manage these emotions and regain control is essential.
Socially, cyberbullying can reduce trust and make individuals withdraw from online communities or social media, leading to isolation and loneliness (Kowalski, Limber & Agatston, 2014). Persistent harmful content can prolong feelings of vulnerability. Developing skills to navigate online interactions safely is crucial for personal recovery and maintaining social connections.
Individuals can take practical steps to protect themselves, manage stress and regain confidence online:
By taking these steps, victims can gradually reclaim a sense of safety and control over their digital environment. Small, consistent actions such as curating online spaces, setting boundaries and seeking support can have a substantial impact on wellbeing.
In conclusion, cyberbullying is a critical digital wellness issue, with consequences for physical health, psychological wellbeing and social relationships. For individuals, the focus should be on practical strategies that protect personal space, manage stress, maintain supportive connections and restore confidence online. Empowered by these steps, victims can transform their digital environment from a source of harm into a safer, manageable space.
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